When a buyer says you are expensive, the fastest answer is a discount. It is also the answer that costs you the most. Ask what they are comparing it with first.
When a customer says your price is too high, do not change the number. Ask what they are comparing it with. Too expensive compared to another vendor, compared to their budget, and compared to doing nothing are three different problems, and only one of them is about your price. Answer the wrong one and you give away margin for no reason.
Your price is too high. Every salesperson hears it. Most people respond in one of two ways. They apologise and offer something off, or they defend the price and repeat the features. Neither works well.
I would not treat either response as a failure of confidence alone. In a sales team working towards a month end target, a price objection can feel like the last obstacle before an order. The temptation is to remove it quickly, especially when a manager is asking when the purchase order will arrive. But a lower price does not necessarily remove the reason the customer is hesitating.
What "too expensive" actually means
The first thing to understand is that too expensive is rarely a sentence about money. It is usually a sentence about value, timing, or trust. Expensive compared to what.
Compared to another vendor. Compared to their budget. Compared to doing nothing. Each one needs a different conversation, and you cannot tell which one it is unless you ask.
I also leave room for the straightforward answer: sometimes the customer genuinely cannot afford it. A business may need the work but be waiting for payments from its own customers. Another may have already committed its annual budget elsewhere. Those are different problems from doubting whether your work is worth the fee, and arguing about value will not make cash available.
So ask. Calmly, without defensiveness. When you say expensive, what are you comparing it with. That single question changes the shape of the discussion, because now the customer is explaining their thinking instead of waiting for your number to drop.
Step one: check that the comparison is fair
If the answer is another vendor, I would first check whether the two proposals cover the same work. A quotation for equipment might exclude installation, freight or operator training that your proposal includes. GST may be shown separately in one quotation and included in the other. The point is not to find fault with a competitor. It is to make sure the customer is comparing the same purchase.
I might say, "Let us check what each quotation includes before we discuss the difference. Does the other proposal include installation and training, or would your team arrange those separately?" If the competing offer is genuinely comparable, I would acknowledge that. Then I would ask which parts of the purchase matter most to their decision, rather than assuming every extra service justifies its cost.
Step two: make the cost of the problem visible
The second thing is that price becomes a problem when value is unclear. If the customer cannot describe the cost of their current problem, any price sounds like too much. Before you talk about your price, help them put a number on what the problem is already costing them in lost deals, delays, rework or attrition. Use their numbers, not yours.
For a distributor considering sales software, I would start with how orders move from the field to the office. Are salespeople sending orders on WhatsApp and asking someone to enter them again? How often does missing information hold up dispatch? Ask the person doing that work, not only the person approving the purchase.
I would separate a recorded cost from a rough estimate. If the customer knows how much time goes into correcting orders, use that information, but do not assume every hour saved becomes money saved. The useful question is what that time could realistically be used for. If nobody knows the cost yet, say so and agree what needs checking before building a case around it.
Step three: stop discounting the silence
The third thing is silence. Many deals in our market get discounted by the salesperson before the customer even asks. Sensing hesitation, we offer a concession to keep the conversation warm.
Hold your nerve. Let the customer finish the objection. Answer the question they actually asked.
On a call with a business owner and a purchase manager, a pause may mean they are considering different concerns. The owner may be thinking about disruption, while the purchase manager is checking approval limits. I would not fill that gap with a revised offer. I would give them room to explain what still needs resolving.
I might say, "I understand the price is a concern. Is the difficulty the total amount, the payment timing, or getting approval internally?" Then I would stop talking. If the issue is approval, the next useful step may be a clear explanation for the finance team, not a discount that still leaves the purchase unjustified.
If you do discount, trade for it
If a discount is genuinely part of the deal, make it an exchange rather than a gift. A longer commitment, a larger scope, a faster decision, a reference conversation. When a discount is given for nothing, the customer learns that your first price was not serious. That lesson follows you into every renewal.
I would check that the exchange is actually useful to both sides. A larger order does not justify a lower rate if it adds delivery costs your team has not allowed for. A faster decision matters only when it genuinely helps you plan capacity or avoid further selling costs. A reference conversation should always be voluntary and subject to the customer's permission, not treated as an endorsement you have bought.
I would also write down what changed and why. If you reduce the scope to meet a budget, name the work that is no longer included. Otherwise, the sales team may agree to a smaller fee while the delivery team is still expected to do everything in the original proposal. Clarity at this stage matters as much inside your business as it does with the customer.
What to do this week
None of this is about being rigid. It is about being clear. A price defended with confidence and explained in the customer language of business impact holds far better than a price rescued by a concession.
This week, I suggest you take one live proposal where the customer has called the price too high. Before changing the quote, ask what they are comparing it with and record their answer in their own words.
Quick answers
- What is the best response when a customer says your price is too high?
- Ask what they are comparing the price with before you change anything. Expensive compared to another vendor, compared to their budget, and compared to doing nothing are three different problems, and only one of them is actually about your number.
- How do you handle a price objection without giving a discount?
- Separate the three possible causes. If the comparison is another quotation, check that both proposals cover the same scope. If value is unclear, help the buyer put their own number on what the current problem costs. If the issue is approval or cash timing, fix the approval case instead of the price.
- When should a salesperson actually offer a discount?
- Only as an exchange, never as a gift. A longer commitment, a larger scope, a faster decision, or a reduced scope that is written down. A discount given for nothing teaches the buyer that your first price was not serious, and that lesson returns at every renewal.
- How do you know if price is the real objection?
- Ask whether the difficulty is the total amount, the payment timing, or getting internal approval, then stop talking. The answer tells you whether you are facing a value problem, a cash problem, or a paperwork problem.
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